The set is {1,2,3} and the relation is R={(1,1),(2,2),(3,3),(1,2),(1,3),(2,3)}.
A relation is reflexive if every element is related to itself. This requires (1,1), (2,2), and (3,3) to be present.
(1,1) is present
(2,2) is present
(3,3) is present
R is reflexive.
A relation is symmetric if whenever (a,b) exists, (b,a) must also exist.
R contains (1,2) but not (2,1)
R contains (1,3) but not (3,1)
R is not symmetric.
A relation is transitive if whenever (a,b) and (b,c) exist, (a,c) must also exist.
(1,2) and (2,3) exist, need (1,3) - present
(1,2) and (2,2) exist, need (1,2) - present
(1,1) and (1,2) exist, need (1,2) - present
(1,1) and (1,3) exist, need (1,3) - present
(2,2) and (2,3) exist, need (2,3) - present
(2,3) and (3,3) exist, need (2,3) - present
All required pairs exist.
R is transitive.
Therefore, R is reflexive and transitive.