(A) - (II) call off → "Can't call off the engagement ceremony" means can't cancel the event.
(B) - (I) call for → "Call for a strict action" means to demand or require strict action against someone.
(C) - (IV) call on → "Not to call on her" means not to visit her (paired with "or ring her" indicates visiting).
(D) - (III) call upon → "Call upon me to explain" means to formally request or ask someone to do something.
Hence, Option 3: (A) - (II), (B) - (I), (C) - (IV), (D) - (III) → Each phrasal verb fits the contextual meaning: canceling an event, demanding action, visiting someone, and formally requesting an explanation respectively → correct